Sex & Relationships,
Your Way
Therapy for people who live, love and desire their way
My desire is to support and empower you to be more fulfilled, have happier and healthier relationships, and the pleasure you desire – whatever that looks like for you.
Two people meet. They fall in love. Happily ever after. Right..?
But what if your story doesn’t look like that?
What if intimacy has faded, or pain, fear or shame get in the way of sex? What if your desires don’t match your partner’s?
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Or you're struggling to communicate with each other?
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What if you want more than just one partner, or your erotic desires fall outside of the mainstream?​
You’re not broken. You’re human.​ Diversity in gender, sexuality, eroticism, and relationships isn’t something to be challenged, it’s something to be celebrated.
And there’s power, pleasure and connection available when you stop trying to squeeze into someone else’s story and start writing your own.
Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist
I work with people who don’t fit neatly into prescribed boxes...especially if you’re queer, kinky, non-monogamous, neurodivergent, or simply not fitting the mould.
Traditional expectations don't make sense to you. They demand you to hide parts of who you are, bury your desires, and wear masks just to belong. But it’s not because something’s wrong with you, it’s because you’re trying to fit a mould that wasn’t made for you.
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It does mean, though, that sex and relationships can be challenging - and that's where I can help.
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As an inclusive therapist who lives and breathes this work (personally AND professionally), I'm here to inspire you to be the colourful, fully-expressed human that you are.
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If you’ve ever felt judged, marginalised, or misunderstood by mainstream therapy, you are welcome here. This is a safe space for you to explore intimacy, love, your relationships and sexual identity and desires, free from judgement.
Some of the challenges I help with
Relationship Struggles
Betrayal, conflict, communication breakdown, family tensions
Loss of Intimacy & Connection
Navigating differences in desire and rekindling sexual connection
Non-monogamy & its Challenges
Opening relationships, improving communication, working through jealousy, envy or fear
Exploring Kink & BDSM
Making space for curiosity about desires, fetishes, and play
Sexual Difficulties
Painful sex, intimacy fears, orgasm concerns, erection/ejaculation problems
Why work with me?
I'm not your average therapist. I don’t sit quietly with a notebook and nod.​
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I don’t just know this work from books or theory. I've been there myself; shamed, judged, hiding my authenticity to keep the peace, struggling to know and accept who I am.
I bring all of me — lived experience, compassion, and a willingness to challenge — into the work with you and create a safe space to explore and accept what's real for you.
I work with a pluralistic, personalised approach because we're all unique, although our challenges may be similar. Your life, your therapy.
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Therapy isn’t about fixing you. It's about unlearning, reclaiming, and radically accepting who you really are - not just to get by, but to thrive.
“Working with Di was a profound turning point in our relationship. We came to her during a very tender and challenging time, not long after having our baby and we were really struggling. Di held us with skilled, compassionate and steady presence. She created a space where we could truly hear and understand one another and helped us rebuild trust and connection from the ground up.
Now, almost a year after finishing our work with her, we’re in the best place we’ve ever been. Our love continues to grow deeper and stronger. We genuinely don’t believe we would have come through it so well without her guidance. We’re deeply grateful for her support, which has not only strengthened our relationship but rippled out into our whole family.”
K&T
